Can Therapists Ask for Reviews? what the codes actually say
The short answer is that therapists cannot ask clients for reviews or testimonials. The APA, ACA, and NASW all prohibit it for the same reason. The power differential in a clinical relationship makes any request feel hard to refuse, even if you never intend it that way.
Key takeaways
- The APA, ACA, and NASW all prohibit asking current clients for reviews or testimonials. The reason is the same across all three: the power differential in a clinical relationship.
- The prohibition covers every platform. Google, Yelp, Psychology Today, a sign in your waiting room. The medium does not change the rule.
- ACA Code C.3.b is the most restrictive. It also covers former clients with no waiting period. If you are an ACA member, the answer is always no.
- If a client reviews you without being asked, leave it alone. Responding publicly confirms the clinical relationship, which is a confidentiality breach.
- Ethical alternatives exist. Peer endorsements, anonymized outcome data, and a well-maintained Google Business Profile all build credibility without crossing any lines.
Why the prohibition exists
You just finished a session with a client who made a massive breakthrough. As they walk out the door, they tell you that you have literally changed their life. In any other industry, that would be the perfect moment to ask for a review. But as a clinician, you already know the rules are different.
The reason is not red tape. It is the nature of the relationship itself. Reviews in most industries serve as social proof: when fifty other people had a great experience with a plumber, you feel safe hiring them. But therapy is not a plumbing service. The relationship between a therapist and a client is built on a significant power imbalance, and that imbalance is what makes soliciting a review an ethics problem.
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Beyond the power dynamic, there is the issue of confidentiality. A review is a public declaration that someone is in treatment. Even if a client is happy to share that today, they may not feel the same way in five years. Once a review is on Google or Yelp, it is permanent. If you respond to it, you are confirming a clinical relationship in a public forum, which is a direct hit to the privacy you promised to protect.
APA Ethics Code 5.05
The American Psychological Association is very direct. Ethics Code 5.05 states that psychologists do not solicit testimonials from current therapy clients or any other person who is vulnerable to undue influence. For psychologists, asking a current client for a Google review is a clear violation.
ACA Code C.3.b
The American Counseling Association is even more restrictive. Code C.3.b explicitly prohibits counselors from soliciting testimonials from current clients, former clients, or anyone else who might be vulnerable. If you are an ACA member, you cannot ask a former client for a review even if it has been years since their last session. There is no safe waiting period.
NASW Code 4.07(b)
The National Association of Social Workers follows a similar path. Code 4.07(b) says social workers should not engage in solicitation of testimonial endorsements from current clients or people who are vulnerable to undue influence. Like the others, this is about protecting the client from pressure to perform for the benefit of the therapist's business.
What about former clients?
The rules vary by governing body, and this is one of the most commonly misunderstood distinctions.
- APA (psychologists): Ethics Code 5.05 explicitly covers current clients and “other persons who because of their particular circumstances are vulnerable to undue influence.” Most ethics experts recommend extending this to former clients as well, since the therapeutic relationship and its power dynamics do not disappear the moment treatment ends. The safest interpretation is never.
- ACA (counselors): Code C.3.b is the most restrictive. It explicitly prohibits soliciting testimonials from both current and former clients, or anyone else who might be vulnerable. There is no safe waiting period. If you are an ACA member, the answer for former clients is the same as for current ones: no.
- NASW (social workers): Code 4.07(b) covers “current clients or from other persons who, because of their particular circumstances, are vulnerable to undue influence.” Former clients are not explicitly named, but the vulnerability standard still applies. Most ethics consultants advise treating former clients the same as current ones.
The practical guidance is the same across all three. If there was ever a clinical relationship, do not solicit a testimonial. The risk of a board complaint is not worth the review.
When a client reviews you without being asked
What happens if a client leaves a review without you asking? You did not solicit it, so you are not in violation of the codes. However, how you handle it still matters.
The best practice is to leave it alone. Responding to a review, even to say thank you, confirms that the person was a client. That is a breach of confidentiality. If the review is negative, the urge to defend yourself will be strong, but a public back-and-forth about a clinical experience is never a win for the therapist. It looks unprofessional and signals to licensing boards that you may be playing fast and loose with privacy rules.
How to build credibility without reviews
If you cannot ask for reviews, how do you compete with the dentist down the street who has three hundred five-star ratings? You build trust through expertise and transparency instead of through a pile of stars.
One of the best approaches is non-client testimonials. You can ethically ask for endorsements from colleagues, supervisors, or people you have taught in workshops. These people are not in a vulnerable clinical relationship with you. Their praise speaks to your professional character and clinical skill without crossing any lines. If you want to tighten up the words on those pages too, our post on private practice copywriting mistakes can help.
Another powerful option is aggregate outcome data. Instead of showing one person's story, you can show the results of your practice as a whole. A statement like “95% of our clients report feeling more confident in setting boundaries after six months” gathered anonymously and honestly provides proof of your effectiveness without identifying anyone.
Your commitment to ethics is also a marketing message in itself. When a potential client sees that you do not have a wall of testimonials, they may not understand why at first. But when your website explains that you prioritize client privacy over marketing metrics, you send a powerful signal. You are telling them that their safety and confidentiality matter more to you than your Google ranking. That kind of integrity builds deeper trust than any five-star review ever could.
Here is what you can do right now, all of it ethical and effective.
Frequently asked questions
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The ethics codes cited in this guide are primary sources, publicly available from each governing body. This guide summarizes and interprets the relevant provisions; it is not legal or professional ethics advice. For guidance specific to your license and jurisdiction, consult a professional ethics consultant or your licensing board.
- American Psychological Association. Ethical Principles of Psychologists and Code of Conduct, Section 5.05: Testimonials. 2017. apa.org/ethics/code
- American Counseling Association. ACA Code of Ethics, Standard C.3.b: Testimonials. 2014. counseling.org
- National Association of Social Workers. NASW Code of Ethics, Section 4.07(b): Solicitations. 2021. socialworkers.org
